Any speaking coach worth his or her salt will tell you that the one thing
speakers don't do enough of is practice. It's not at all unusual for me to
suggest a two- to-three month horizon to prep for a major talk, only to
have the speaker exclaim, "But I've never spent more than two days getting
If I had a nickel for every time a client said that, I could quit coaching
and live quite comfortably.
But when you're getting ready to give a speech, you might want to know some
of the many reasons coaches urge practice before you dismiss it out of
First and foremost, practice gives you room to make mistakes and correct
them without an audience present. I like to say, "If you're going to screw
up, wouldn't you rather do that privately with me than in front of the
More than that, practice lets you take something from good to great, from
tentative to polished. You can find out where you stumble and stutter and
come up with workarounds. You can learn whether that move you want to make
across the stage works in real life. You will find out which parts of your
script or slides just don't stick in your memory bank and adjust them.
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You can try out a gesture, handle a prop, experiment with volume,
vocalizing, and every other aspect of delivery—not just once, but several
times, so you can choose from the most successful options for you.
Plus, you'll go into the talk knowing why you chose not to do certain
things, which is its own form of comfort. You'll get used to the sound of
your own voice and how it feels to give the talk out loud, as opposed to
just silently narrating your slides as you review them; that kinetic memory
will build as you practice, giving you that much more confidence.
Practice also affords you the time and space to learn your talk inside out
so you are less flummoxed by a last-minute interruption or snafu. It means
that when you panic at the sight of the lights and the crowd, what you
wanted to say will come out of your mouth anyway and get you started.
Practice gives you the chance to decide that you don't need every single
slide—before the audience's eyes start to glaze over. You'll have the
chance to practice without the slides and without feeling the need to speed
Finally, practice is great insurance against the bane of public speakers:
That moment when you step off the stage and realize you forgot to make your
most important point.
When considering your practice time, remember the great irony of public
speaking: It's the speakers who look most natural, conversational, genuine
and spontaneously smooth who practice the most. Everyone else just looks
unprepared. Audiences appreciate the difference.
For me, the proof lies in what I hear when coaching clients call me to
report, "I did all the preparation you told me to do, and it worked!" Yes,
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Denise Graveline is a Washington, D.C.-based speaker coach who has
coached more than 140 speakers for TEDMED or TEDx talks.
A version of this article first appeared on her blog,
The Eloquent Woman.