Do you lay or lie down?

The key factor in which to use is whether there’s a direct object. Much of the confusion stems from the fact that ‘lay’ is the past tense of ‘lie.’

The words “lay” and “lie” may be the least favorite words of marketers who work for mattress firms or furniture stores. I don’t work in either of those, but I will go to exceedingly great lengths to find another word just so that I don’t have to endure the “lay” versus “lie” debate.

Sometimes the unavoidable term is “lay” or “lie.” I recognize the fact and respond accordingly; I go to the writing rules and reexamine when to use “lay” or “lie.”


The word “lay” means “put” or “place.” Its meaning necessitates a direct object. The word is, in that way, akin to the word “set.” One always “sets” a direct object, a particular thing, be it the table or a stack of books on said table. Similarly, a person would “lay” a tablecloth on the table or, if on a picnic, under a tree in the shade.

The word itself has a few forms: lay (present tense), laid (past tense), and laid (past participle). For example, a child recites the bedtime prayer, “Now I lay me down to sleep.” Without that “me,” the word choice would be incorrect. The “me” is the direct object of the verb “lay.” (Editor’s note: In that case it should actually be the reflexive pronoun “myself,” but that’s a topic for another article.)

“Laid” is the past tense of “lay,” which means it needs no other verbs but does still need a direct object: The chicken laid five eggs. The farmer laid his tools on the workbench before going inside for breakfast.

“Laid” as a past participle combines with forms of “have” and “be” and is written as “has laid” or “was laid.” Though the word doesn’t often appear as a modifier of nouns and pronouns, past participles have that capability. In the case of the chicken, the farmer’s wife gathered the laid eggs and made omelets.


The word “lie” means to “recline” or “be situated.” Unlike “lay,” the word does not take a direct object. People just simply “lie” at the table, which is, of course, a double entendre. The dinner guests might “recline” at the table, but they might also be lying. In the case of Julius Caesar, both facets of the word were more than likely true.

The main tenses of “lie” are “lie,” “lay,” and “lain.” The child speaking of naptime would say, “I’m ready to lie down.” If the child just took an afternoon nap, he or she lay down for one. The mother might follow the child’s suit: She had lain down for a nap.

The past tense of “lie” is the problematic one. It’s spelled and looks the same as the word that means to “put” or “place.” When “lie’s” past tense form is required, it’s time to remember what both “lie” and “lay” mean, what forms they take, and what objects they do or do not need.

Erin Feldman is director of editorial services at Tenacity5 and author of Write Right. Click here to get more of Erin’s grammar, marketing, and PR tips. A version of this article first appeared on Vocus.

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