High schools get a lot of criticism for the way graduates are prepared (or not) for the rigors of the real world. Nowhere does that lack of preparation get highlighted more than in the workplace. But you’d be surprised how much happens in your average high school that’s related to the working world.
High school can teach us plenty of lessons about how to win friends and influence people professionally. Here are seven shining examples that prove what goes on in high school hallways isn’t that different from what’s happening around the water cooler.
1. Fake it until you make it
Whether it was walking through the front doors of your high school for the first time or trying out for the school play, there were plenty of times in high school when you felt out of your comfort zone. The bad news is that those feelings still arise in the professional world.
The same advice you were given to overcome your fears and to project confidence can still save your booty at the office. Don’t misrepresent your skills or knowledge, but don’t sell yourself short if you don’t know the answer to every question when you’re put on the spot.
Sometimes it seems better to get what you want now instead of later, but it’s not complicated. Be patient, and don’t jump at the chance to be boss’s pet. An eloquent response that shares the knowledge you do have and promises additional research will buy you the time you need to get the information that’ll blow your boss’ socks off.
2. Tardiness isn’t tolerated
Even though most offices don’t have a tardy bell, you can bet someone is taking note of who shows up late and who skips out early. Attendance is a basic tenet of all schooling, and that’s because—like it or not—it matters. Forever.
Showing up on time is a sign of respect, courtesy, and responsibility. You won’t get the keys to the executive bathroom if you always show up 10 minutes late.
3. Don’t be a mean girl
Bullying, petty competition, and vicious gossip aren’t left behind with bad cafeteria food and unrequited high school crushes. Mean girls persist in the workplace, and it’s women picking on each other 80 percent of the time.
Whether you were poked fun at for your braces or you were the one who did the poking, tearing other people down never helps you get ahead. (Click here to tweet that thought.) Trying to boost yourself up by making fun of someone else, spreading gossip, or giving people the cold shoulder is a surefire way to lose respect, inspire distrust and become someone whom co-workers avoid.
4. Prank at your own risk
Everyone loves the class clown, right? Well, maybe not. Pulling off the perfect office prank may be your Holy Grail, but it’s not always viewed in the best light. In high school, you might be able to get away with never taking anything seriously and humiliating others in the name of laughter, but at work, being known as the office jester can work against you.
If you can’t resist getting one over on your colleagues, prank judiciously and never cross the line into anything that leaves you or your company open to a lawsuit.
5. Where you sit matters
Where you sit on the first day might be where you’re stuck all year: In the conference room, as well as the classroom, the seat you choose can say a lot about you. It’s a delicate balance between looking like a suck-up and seeming completely disengaged (slackers only in the back row!).
If you’re looking to move up the career ladder, be strategic. Observe what other leaders in your company do in meetings and follow suit. Sit near the person leading the meeting, sit up straight, and take notes-no checking your email or sneaking in a round of Words with Friends.
In the workplace they don’t just take your phone away for the day; disruptive or inattentive behavior could put your job at risk.
6. Jump in and have some fun
Remember how your parents pressured you into taking up the trombone and joining the marching band? Do you also remember the awesome friends you made and how you can honestly start a story with, “This one time at band camp…”?
What you didn’t know when your folks coerced you into joining is that it’d make your life better. The same phenomenon happens at work. Look for opportunities to be on the party committee, help with a service project, or bring that killer dessert you make to the next potluck. You’ll strengthen your relationships and gain clout with the higher-ups.
7. Focus on what you love
One of the best parts of high school was having more control over the classes you took. If you loved photography, you had a slew of classes to take, and you could even put your skills to work on the school paper or yearbook. There’s no reason to stop doing what you love after high school.
Though not everyone can be the next Justin Bieber or Annie Leibovitz, you can still find ways to pay the bills and do what you love. Whether you become the unofficial office photographer or go into graphic design where photos are part of your job description, it’s important to find work you can be passionate about.
Even though high school may have felt as if it lasted a lifetime, you’re going to be on the job for much longer, so make sure you don’t sell yourself short from 9-to-5.
What other high school lessons do you find applicable in the dog-eat-dog world of business?
A version of this article first appeared on BrazenCareerist.