Who or whom? Here's a simple trick

Do you lose sleep over rules of grammar? I usually don't, because I was lucky enough to grow up in a household where both parents insisted that I speak correctly all the time. My father was a writer and, frankly, a snob about English. His mother (who died before I was born) was from Oxford, and he spoke with an English accent his entire life, even though he'd never stepped off North American shores. We were required to pronounce the word tomato, toe-MAW-t read more...